How to Break the Cycle of Harsh Self-Judgment

Have you ever said or done something you regret, and then thought, “I must be a terrible person”?Maybe you hurt someone with your words or actions, even by accident. Instead of thinking, “I made a mistake,” you think, “I am the mistake.” If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. A lot of people especially kind, sensitive…

How Energy Affects Your Opportunities

We often hear phrases like Seize the opportunity or Success is all about timing. But one essential ingredient rarely gets the spotlight: energy. Not luck. Not just strategy. Energy—physical, emotional, mental, and even spiritual—is the fuel that determines whether an opportunity will bloom or vanish. Opportunity Doesn’t Just Knock—You Have to Open the Door Opportunities come in many forms:…

How to Stop Seeking Validation from Others and Build True Self-Worth

Why Do We Seek Validation? As humans, we naturally crave acceptance and approval. From childhood, we are conditioned to seek praise from parents, teachers, friends, and society. A compliment, a like on social media, or a nod of approval can make us feel valued and reassured. However, when validation-seeking becomes a habit, it traps us…

Perfectionism: The trait that demands more attention

Perfectionism is the pursuit of excellence, whether directed at ourselves or expected from others. While this drive can lead to positive outcomes, it can also have negative consequences. Understanding these tendencies can help reduce unnecessary pressure and stress. Types of perfectionism Self-oriented perfectionism involves setting unrealistically high standards for yourself. People with this type of…